The Book of Isaiah - Part Five

Returning to Isaiah Molesdale, after his 1863 marriage record, the next mention of him that I have is on Elizabeth’s marriage license to William Self in 1866, recorded in the Crawford County Courthouse, which states that they were married at her father’s home on Dry Creek, MO. In the 1870 Missouri census, I.W. Molesdale is living in Dent County, Spring Creek Township. However, the entry is very, very faint on the microfilm and impossible to read.

The frustrating aspect of this is that there are four entries listed after I.W. Molesdale’s name which would indicate that there were 4 other people living in the household. Since Isaiah didn’t remarry until 1872 (see following paragraph), perhaps Fred and Louisa didn’t run off together until later than originally thought, and perhaps Lucy and Bell were Isaiah’s children (along with Mary E.) with Louisa rather than Louisa and Fred’s children.

Then in Marriage Book 3, p. 30, in the Crawford County Courthouse in Steelville is the following:

This is to certify that I did Solemnize the rights of Matrimony between Isiah Mosedale and Miss Polly Stayner on the 1st day of Feb 1872 both of the County and state aforesaid Given under my hand this 8th day of February 1872 Jas I Walbest, Justice of the Peace

In the 1880 census, Isaiah is again recorded in Dent County. He was listed as 62, a farmer and born in England, as were his parents. Living with him was his wife Mary W. (age 51, and born in Kentucky, as were her parents) and a daughter, Mary E., age 15 (father born in England, mother born in Missouri – this would have been Louisa Jane Wood). Unless Polly was a nickname for Mary (although usually the nickname was Molly), sometime between 1872 and 1880, Isaiah either divorced Polly Stayner or she died, and he married Mary W. There are several references to I.W. and Mary W. Molesdale in land deed transactions in the 1880’s at the Dent County Courthouse in Salem, Missouri. Mary W. Molesdale died July 29, 1889, age 58 years, and is buried in Stagner Cemetery outside of Salem, MO.

According to some Stagner Cemetery records sent to me by Mr. Ken Fiebelman in Salem, Missouri, Isaiah married one final time. His sixth wife (or fifth if Polly and Mary W. were the same) was Mary A. Leavitt whom he married Dec. 25, 1889. Her name is on some land deeds in 1890, but by 1892, the ones I saw only had Isaiah’s name on them. The cemetery records also state that Mary E. Molesdal married John G. Malcolm on October 19, 1882. At this time I have no evidence of any children by Isaiah’s other wives than the three by his two wives in England, and one (or three) by Louisa Wood.

Isaiah Molesdale was pretty well known in Salem. Walt Self has a piece of paper on which is copied

A Bible presented to I.W. Molesdale, Salem, Dent Co., MO by members of the M.E. Church for his honest labors in the church and their appreciation of the same. Dec. 25th, 1882.

According to the book History of Dent County, I.W. Molesdale was the Salem city commissioner in 1884-85, and the city council named the street on which he lived "Mosedale Avenue". It was later changed to E. 4th Street. That same article, written by William P. Elmer, states that Isaiah Mosedale

was an Englishman and lived in a small house in East Salem, generally known now (1950) as the Judge Milsap house. It was a neat place then. Mrs. Mosedale was stung in the eye by a hornet and put it out – only accident of the kind I ever heard of.

The Mrs. Mosedale referred to above would be Mary W. Mosedale.

Isaiah Molesdale died August 8, 1893, at the home of his daughter Elizabeth Self, in Cherryville, MO. Among the letters Ruth Barton had was one written by Elizabeth Self to a Mr. Hibler, probably her son-in-law, Charles Henry Hibler, married to her daughter Ida Self.

The letter reads as follows:

August 8, 1893

Mr. Hibler:

Father is dead, he died at twelve o’clock today and I want you to get an outfit to bury him in. Get a suitable coffin and be sure and get some ice. The measure is 6 feet 4 inches. Get a suit of nice black clothes and be sure and get them large enough – shoes, gloves, socks, and if you think of anything else get them. And we will bring him to Steelville as soon as possible tomorrow to take him to Salem on the train tomorrow. And I would like for you to send a telegram to Salem and have his grave dug at the Stagner Graveyard. Please attend to this and I will make it all right with you.

From your Mother E. Self

Send ice with the Coffin

In August of 1992, I drove to Crawford County, Missouri, from my home in Huntsville, AL, and met Walt Self who drove down from his home near Keokuk, Iowa. Together we did some research in the Crawford County Courthouse and library in Steelville, and drove to Cherryville and saw where the home of Elizabeth and William Self had stood. We also drove to Salem, MO, in Dent County, and after asking several people with no success, were finally able to get directions to the Stagner Cemetery from a local funeral home.

It is a small cemetery on a dirt road east of town. We were able to find the tombstone of Mary W., wife of I.W. Molesdale, but there was no tombstone for Isaiah. However, close to Mary’s grave and in line with the other tombstones was a rather large rock which had obviously been placed there. Walt and I both felt that it probably marked Isaiah’s grave, but we have no way to prove that other than the evidence of Elizabeth’s letter on the day her father died and a notation in her family Bible that Isaiah Molesdale is buried in Stagner Cemetery.

Compiled by:
Babs Christy
12117 Greenleaf Drive
Huntsville, AL 35803
January 2000

The above information was based on personal conversations with Florence Barlow and Walter Self; personal email communication with Susan Brown and Ian Rhodes; census records; birth, death, and marriage certificates; personal letters of Ruth Barton; Elizabeth Self’s family Bible; the book Self Connections by Ken and Maurine Self; and personal correspondence with Ken Fiebelman.

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